{"id":3936,"date":"2023-11-25T15:03:06","date_gmt":"2023-11-25T14:03:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.poliklinika-salvea.hr\/?p=3936"},"modified":"2024-06-04T13:54:25","modified_gmt":"2024-06-04T11:54:25","slug":"what-if-your-child-makes-you-angry-a-quick-guide-to-maintaining-a-healthy-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.poliklinika-salvea.hr\/en\/what-if-your-child-makes-you-angry-a-quick-guide-to-maintaining-a-healthy-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"What if your child makes you angry? A quick guide to maintaining a healthy relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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T<\/span>he challenges of parenting are endless, and the level of stress and pressure never lets up. In the midst of all that stress, there are also situations where our little one remembers at 10 o’clock at night that he hasn’t finished his homework, or when dressing for kindergarten he insists on wearing winter tights even though it’s 28 degrees Celsius outside, an older child teases a younger one which results in thunderous crying and you are simply bursting at the seams.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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It's not easy being a parent<\/h4>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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Don’t worry, there is no parent who hasn’t been infuriated by their own child. We all enter the parental relationship wounded in some way in childhood, and our children bring all these wounds to the surface. This is precisely why it is the responsibility of us adults to stay away from the edge of the cliff of patience and to be aware of the new emotions that children encounter, which sometimes throw us adults off track.<\/span><\/p>

First of all, it is important to understand that we parents are responsible for our angry reaction, not our child. It is also true that children are an easy target for us to vent our frustrations on compared to adults who could respond and return the same measure, such as partners or bosses. Who else could you yell at like that?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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How to deal with difficult situations in raising children<\/h4>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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Precisely in order to reduce your stormy reaction and prevent your child from growing up with the same emotional wounds, I give you some tips that can help you not to blame your anger or rage on your child and to understand the key processes in moments of anger:<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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  1. When you are very angry, the most important thing is NOT TO ACT. Despite the need to act immediately and teach the child a lesson, it is very important not to act while the emotion of anger is at its peak.<\/li>
  2. Breathe! Breathing is your pause button, but it also gives you a choice \u2013 are you really going to let negative emotions take over?<\/li>
  3. Whatever your child does, remember: No hitting. No swearing. No derogatory names. No punishment while angry.<\/li>
  4. Say NO to screaming, shouting, yelling. Raising your voice at a child is non-contact wounding. Never scream at your child – screaming is nothing more than a tantrum, and you are no longer a child. If you really have to scream, go where no one can hear you, scream into a pillow in another room, get in the car, roll up the windows and let out a fit of rage, without it having consequences for the child.<\/li><\/ol>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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